September 24, 2012 would have marked my late sister's 52nd birthday.
Julia Anastasia Casten was born on September 24, 1960 and passed away at the tender age of 48 on June 27, 2009. Her death followed our mother's death of just one year earlier (June 25, 2008).
Julia was much like Ella.
Julia fought against Hodgkin's Disease, Breast Cancer, and compromised breathing for more than half of her life. Ella fights Spinal Muscular Atrophy Type 2.
Julia brought a unique perspective to the world. Ella brings her perspective too, eliciting smiles from all whom she meets.
Julia fought hard and was determined in every aspect of her life. Ella fights everyday to overcome the limitations placed upon her and her determination is admirable.
Julia was a beautiful girl, inside and out. As is Ella.
Julia had two siblings, parents, and friends that loved her dearly. Ella has all of that in abundance.
Julia loved to talk and be social. Ella has a vocabulary and social skills unlike any other two-year old.
Julia and Ella never met. Had they met I'm sure they would have shared a bond that would run deep into their souls. I do believe, however, that they know one another. They are part of each other. Through the mysteries of life and death, the present and the after-life, I firmly believe that their spirits have crossed...and somehow they share one another.
As Ella grows, as she becomes older and more aware of who she is and what her life will be like, the similarities that she shares with Julia will prove to be to her advantage.
Julia was an inspiration to many, a friend to all, a woman who knew what she believed, and a soul that persevered through extremely trying times. Ella is most certainly Aunt Jules's niece...
Rest in peace, Julia.
Love,
Michael
