Thursday, June 25, 2015

Hannah's Help...(by Michael)


One is just leaving elementary school; the other is just entering.

One is a big sister; the other is a little sister.

One fights to help find treatments or a cure for SMA; the other fights to survive the effects of SMA. 

Yet they really don't know one another.  Until just recently.

Two years ago a young girl entered my 4th grade classroom.  She was (and is) full of life, energy, and goodwill.  She has a strong personality...knowing what she wants, going forward with her plans, and lets nothing stand in her way.  She's determined, she's straight-forward, she's big-hearted.

In many ways since I've known her she has supported Ella's fight against SMA.  She has had lemonade stands, made cards for Ella, and asked about her...genuinely wanting to know how she is faring.  Her name is Hannah.

I received an email from her mother asking if it would be all right if Hannah did something for Ella.  Hannah's plan was to have her 11th birthday party benefit Ella.  Instead of gifts she asked her friends to donate to Ella the money they would have spent on a present for her.  

Not only was this an act of extreme kindness, selflessness, and love, it came at a time that found Ella's bank account nearly at 'zero'.  The expense required to care for Ella outside of what insurance and other sources can provide falls on us.  We do our best and it is a struggle.

A few days prior to the e-mail coming in Lindsay and I were having a long discussion about how we were going to rearrange our finances in order pay for Ella's needs.  With the bank account nearing 'zero' we were prepared to be creative as well as sacrifice much.  

Through Hannah we know that God worked for Ella once more; providing for her in a way that we simply could not.  The financial goal we set with Hannah was far exceeded and we are so very grateful for her and her friends and family.

An 11-year-old who gives up her birthday gifts to benefit another...Wow!





Thursday, June 11, 2015

Hip-Hip-Not Hooray...(by Michael & Lindsay)


One of the criteria for the diagnosis of SMA Type 2 is that the patient has reached the milestone of sitting unassisted.  Ella fits that criteria well.  In fact, almost her entire day is spent sitting, either independently or strapped in a wheelchair.

One of the consequences of SMA is, of course, the atrophy and weakening of muscles.  When you combine muscle atrophy with non-weight bearing a host of problems can and do occur.  One of those problems has to do with the hips.

The weak muscles cannot hold the hips in the proper place and over time they begin to dislocate. We've been keeping an eye on them alongside Ella's orthopedic surgeon for the past year now.  

Historically speaking kids with SMA Type 2 wouldn't have had hip surgery for the simple reason that if there was no pain associated with the dislocation the call for surgery was unwarranted.  Doctors simply "kept an eye on them".  

So what's changed? 

Survival.

Kids with Type 2 SMA are surviving longer these days with improved care.  And while kids before were not experiencing pain, many of them weren't living long enough to get to the point when there would be pain.  Not so true anymore.

If Ella's hips go untreated they will continue to dislocate; producing a pronounced pelvic tilt, contributing to scoliosis, and causing pain...much pain.  Not to mention thwarting her ability to sit independently.  In fact, she has "tipped" over a few times over the past year---just sitting there and "boom", down she goes.

Not only are we looking to the future in terms of pain, scoliosis, and independence...we are also looking at helping her to be "mechanically sound" for when the treatments and/or cure become available...we want her in the "best position" at that time.

Not to mention the surgery itself.  Right now, Ella is strong. Her respiratory system has been doing well, and her ability to recover quickly exists.  Her doctor says that waiting until the hips are worse and pain is present would make for a much more complicated surgery.  

So what's involved?  Well here's why it's taken us so long to come to this decision:


  • The surgery is 7 hours long for both hips.
  • The surgeon will cut her femurs and re-position them properly.
  • The femur will be held in place in the hip socket with metal brackets screwed into surrounding bone.
  • Depending on the condition of the socket he may have to "create" a socket.  This is because when the femur is not in the socket the socket itself tends to "flatten" out.
  • The possibility of a blood transfusion exists so we will prepare for that.
  • She will be intubated.  This can pose a problem for kids with SMA for a variety of reasons.  She's strong now and her doctors think and feel that she can be extubated successfully.  This is one of our big concern areas, though.
  • She will spend 4-5 days in the hospital.
  • She will be immobile for at least two weeks...then we will slowly get her back to sitting.
  • Regression will occur...so intense PT will commence when she's ready.


We know that there are different schools of thought when it comes to hip surgery and kids with SMA.  We have--through prayer, research, discussion, and thought--come to the realization that we must do what's best for Ella's future.  


We have yet to tell Ella of the upcoming surgery...that will be a discussion for the time just preceding the day of surgery.  
Surgery is set for July 9th (2015).

We will share, once we know, the details of the hospital stay (4-5 days) so that those who would like to visit or send a card/something special can do so.  We know that Ella would also love to have visitors at home while she recovers...play dates, movie dates, coloring dates, play-doh dates, etc!!

Ella's a fortunate girl.  She is surrounded by so many people who care for her.  She just turned 5 years old and has been through so much in such a short time...she is really going to need you for this one...it's a big one.  

We've spent much time with her doctors...all of them...and we are confident in their opinions, amazed by their professionalism, grateful for their compassion, and trusting in their abilities to care for our Ella.


Monday, June 8, 2015

Disney Cruise (by Lindsay)

In the middle of May, we were so fortunate to have Ella's Make-A-Wish trip...a Disney Cruise (aboard the Disney Dream) to the Bahamas!

It was a magical trip, to say the least, and we all had an incredible time!!!  Make-A-Wish took care of everything, literally everything, from transportation to the airport, to money for souvenirs.  We were treated like royalty the entire time we were there! 

The cruise ship was like a palace on water, and luckily none of us had any issues of sea sickness :)  The food was amazing, as was the service.  We enjoyed time in the pools, on the beach, and we even got to swim with a dolphin!

We are so grateful for the Make-A-Wish organization for providing us with the trip of a lifetime!!!

But enough talk...pictures are worth a thousand words :)


At the airport


Ready to go!


Henry at the controls
The bus to take us to the port


Inside the Disney Dream!


Our stateroom


Our stateroom


Our private veranda


Michael & Ella


Exploring the ship


Exploring the ship


Port holes
Port holes


Port holes


Out at sea


Deck 11 pools


Deck 11 pools/water slides


Jumbo TV on Deck 11


Swimming!


Grabbing a drink while the kids play in the kids club

Braids!


Braids!


Our stateroom ready for bed



Chillin'


The Disney Dream


On a ferry to go to Blue Lagoon Island in the Bahamas


Fun on the ferry


All three girls with their braids


Blue Lagoon Island


Blue Lagoon Island


Obstacle course in the ocean


Michael & Ella


Henry & Ella


Passed out on the ferry back to the ship


Ready for Pirate Night!


Pirate Night!


Castaway Cay (Disney's private island)


One of my favorites :)


Gorgeous!


Fun at the beach


Fun at the beach


Fun at the beach


Smoothies in coconut cups


Beach life


Beach life


Beach life


Ella, Henry & Ava by the ship


Belle!


Captain Mickey


Captain Mickey


The grand staircase


Our last meal, ready to head to the airport


Goofy!


Another favorite...swimming with the dolphin!


My hair after taking out the braids...YIKES!